Cheap Workout Clothes For Women You Can Buy on Amazon

Cheap Workout Clothes For Women You Can Buy on Amazon

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If you want cute and quality workout clothes but the very thought of spending $90 for a pair of leggings makes you feel a little sick, you’re in luck. Turns out Amazon is an absolute treasure trove of awesome and inexpensive workout clothes that you can purchase at the click of a button.

And can we talk for a second about how miraculous that is?

I’ve got 4 small kids, a job, and a house to run. I’m busy. And the fact that Amazon repeatedly saves me from dragging 4 kids to a store makes me want to write poetry and dance about my house.

When I realized I could stop forking over way too much money buy my workout clothes on Amazon, I could hear the Hallejulah chorus.

And the best part: the clothes are AWESOME.

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Cheap Workout Clothes for Women on Amazon #workoutclothes #cheap

I’ll admit it. When I’m huffin’ and puffin’ my way through the gym, sweat dripping, I like to at least try and look cute. My awesome Amazon finds have definitely helped in that effort.

So if you love cute but cheap workout clothes for women, check out these awesome (and super well-reviewed) leggings, tops, and sports bras from Amazon.


ODODOS High-Waisted Leggings w/ Pocket

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These leggings are absolutely fantastic. I love the high waist and the outside pocket to hold my cell phone while I work out. Plus, they come in just about every imaginable color in both capri and full legging length. True to size and super comfortable!

Queenie Ke High-Waisted Legging

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These cute and comfy leggings stay put and are squat-proof (no see-through areas!). Since they come in jillion colors, you’re sure to find a pair you’ll love.

CompressionZ High-Waisted Compression Legging 

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These compression leggings are perfect if you are looking for a snug tight fit without forking over serious cash. Tons of cute patterns to choose from.


Bestisun Tie-Back Sleeveless Top 

cheap workout clothes for women

Not only is this tie-back top super cute and comfy, it’s awesome if you need a bit more breathability. Runs a bit small so order a size up. 

Icyzone Racerback Tank

cheap workout clothes for women

I love these classic racerback tank tops. They’re an unbelievable value, in my opinion. Most days, this is what I wear to the gym. Nice and stretchy with option to purchase packs of 3 together. Runs a bit small, so order up. Since they are a bit long, I order 2 sizes up and tie the back.

Opna Moisture-Wicking Short Sleeve Top

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If you’re looking for moisture wicking or more coverage, these short sleeved tops are perfect.

Icyzone Loose Tank

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These light-weight tanks are perfect if you’re a serious sweater like me. Comes in option to buy in packs of three or individual tops. Order up if you like to tie in the back.


MIRITY Racerback Sports Bra

cheap workout clothes for women

These sports bras will support the ladies through high-impact exercises. They come in very affordable packs of 2 to 5 sports bras.

CRZ YOGA Strappy Sports Bra

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This strappy sports bra is cute and comes in a bunch of fun colors.  Best suited for smaller chests.

EMY Seamless Sports Bra

cheap workout clothes for womenThese seamless sports bras are super comfortable and come in cute colors.


Cute workout clothes can be both affordable and super convenient, thanks to Amazon. You can’t go wrong with any of the above options. Give one or two a try and see how you can get cute and quality workout clothes on the cheap.

Happy exercising!


10 Strategies for Moms to Get Better Sleep

10 Strategies for Moms to Get Better Sleep

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I felt like the walking dead. I’d had 4 back-to-back pregnancies. Which meant 4 newborns in under 5 years.

I questioned whether I would ever sleep well again.

The chronic fatigue of motherhood made it hard to be patient and playful with my children.

But like most moms, as much as I cherished sleep, I didn’t think it was a priority.

However, after my 4th baby was born I realized that getting enough quality sleep was directly related to achieving my goals. When I got better sleep, I was happier and more patient. Which meant my kids were happier and we had fewer tantrums.

Plus, I was working hard to lose the weight that stacked up over 4 pregnancies and I found that the better sleep I got, the easier it was to eat healthy and lose weight.


Sleep impacts every area of our lives. Getting quality sleep is linked to better general health, lower stress, and a longer lifespan. Yet how often does getting enough quality sleep fall to the bottom of our list of priorities?

Most moms are not getting quality sleep.


Well, you are balancing children, a home, endless responsibilities, and maybe even work!

And what comes last?


But sleep deprivation is literally killing people through the associated health problems that come with it. And like the oxygen masks on an airplane, if you want to help other people (i.e. your kids) you need to make sure your mask is on.

Simply put: You need better sleep.

And making just a few changes to your routine can dramatically increase the quality of your sleep and your life.

Here’s how you can get better sleep tonight:

10 Strategies for Moms to Get Dramatically Better Sleep. #sleeptips

10 Strategies for Moms to Get Dramatically Better Sleep. #sleeptips10 Strategies for Moms to Get Dramatically Better Sleep. #sleeptips



Adults needs no fewer than 7 hours of sleep a night. While some will proclaim that you can function perfectly well off something like 4 hours of sleep a night, that is complete and utter nonsense.

You know exactly what 4 hours of sleep feels like and it’s doesn’t feel good.

(Listen to a sleep scientist explain the importance of sleep in this fascinating podcast episode.)

Sleep experts are adamant that adults need between 7-9 hours of sleep a night. Failure to get enough sleep can be disasterous. Sleep deprived people are more likely to get into accidents and make fatal mistakes

And I know that this is so hard for us moms. You’ve put the kids to bed and after a long day you finally have a few seconds to yourself.

You want to decompress with some Netflix. And maybe even have an adult conversation with your husband.

And you may have to wake up with you child several times a night.

Whatever the case, figure out when you need to go to sleep at night to make sure that you are getting enough sleep.


Screen are everywhere. And they are destroying our sleep. In our digital age, avoiding screens takes serious planning and willpower.

But you can do it.

Have a screen cut off time at least 2 hours before you plan to go to sleep. If you can, keep your phone and other screens out of your room entirely.

I’ll admit, this one was a struggle for me. The hubs and I used to have this nightly ritual of watching an episode (or five) of Forensic Files in bed. It was our time to spend together after a long day and, frankly, it’s crazy good.

BUT it wasn’t great for my sleep. An dItching screens before bedtime has dramatically improved my sleep.


Eating heavy foods before bed will sabotage your sleep. Think about the last time you tried to fall asleep at night with an overly full belly. You probably had a hard time getting comfortable.

Personally, going to sleep on a slightly empty stomach (3 or so hours after eating) is best for my sleep quality.


This one is pretty obvious. Caffeine is a stimulant and it will make it hard to fall alseep. If you rely heavily on caffeine to get through your day, then your body is literally begging you to make sleep a priority.

Better sleep will reduce your dependence on caffeine. Stop the caffeine after the afternoon and then get to bed early.


Do you find your bedroom relaxing? Is it a reprieve from stress? If not, making some changes will drastically change your sleep and even your mood.

You can invite amazing sleep into your bedroom by creating a bedroom sanctuary. This means eliminating distractions, lights, screens, mess–whatever will make it hard to shut off your brain and keep quality sleep at bay.


Research shows that exercise significantly helps people to sleep better. If you aren’t a regular exerciser, it’s best to start out easy. Vigorous exercise might zap you of your energy during the day. Need some motivation? Check out 3 Ways for Busy Moms to Get Motivated to Workout.


Do you have trouble relaxing and shutting off your brain? Even if you’re exhausted, is is a struggle to quiet your busy mind? Then try deep breathing exercises.

A simple one to try is 5-5-5 breathing. Breathe in for 5 counts, hold for 5 counts, and breathe out for an additional 5 counts. Repeat a few times and you will feel your body starting to relax.

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Meditation is also fabulous. It’s great at any time of the day, but it’s especially helpful for relaxing and preparing for sleep.

I used to lie awake at night, my mind racing with everything I had to do. Despite being exhausted, calming my mind seemed impossible. Until I started meditating.

I’ve found that practicing regular mediation has made it much easier for me to manage anxiety and stress. It’s made it easier to shut off my brain at night and fall asleep. There are so many great guided meditations for sleep on the internet. I personally love the UCLA guided meditations. Here’s one especially for sleep.


Research shows that creating a reliable body clock where you go to bed and rise at the same times each day drastically improves sleep quality. Your circadian rythm (the body’s 24 hour internal clock) works best when you have regular sleep habits.

As a busy mom, this will take planning and willpower since life can be a bit chaotic.

I have found that moving my “me time” to the mornings as opposed to after the kids are in bed has made it easier to go to bed after I put my kids down.


Just like creating bedtime routines for your kids helps them fall asleep, relaxing bedtime routine will help you fall asleep and sleep soundly. Some examples of nightly rituals include:

  • Create your to-do list for the next day: Feeling prepared for the next day will allow your brain to relax and unwind.
  • Take a relaxing hot bath: When you get out of the bath, your body’s rapid temperature drop naturally relaxes you and will help you get better sleep.
  • Read a book: Reading can be relaxing and put you right to sleep.
  • Lay out your clothes: Like making your to-do list, preparing your clothes for the day can help calm your mind.


Love to keep your bedroom freezing and pile on the blankets? Well, you’re in luck! It’s actually good for you. Sleeping in a cold room helps you sleep better and is actually better for your overall health!


Mama, your sleep is so incredibly important. You are the engine for your home and family. Making sure that engine is running well means that you need to get quality sleep.

You don’t have to try every single strategy above to start seeing really positive results. As i started to implement just a few of the strategies, I started to really notice a difference in my sleep.

Even a few changes to your routine can be life changing. Pick a few strategies that seem doable and try them for a week and see what happens.

You deserve a good night’s rest.

You’ve got this, mama!



3 Ways For Busy Moms to Get Motivated to Workout

3 Ways For Busy Moms to Get Motivated to Workout

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As a mom, it’s not always easy to get motivated to workout. Between the exhaustion and the never-ended “to do” list, it can be hard to make working out a priority.

I had exercised 4-5 days a week (with very few exceptions) for around 15 years before I fell off the wagon COMPLETELY while I was working, raising 2 kids (aged 1 and 2)  while pregnant with my third.

Like, I maybe exercised 3 times the whole 9 months. And after my pregnancy, with 3 kids 3 and under just getting through the day was challenge enough. 

But of course, I wanted to exercise.

I knew how much I’d benefit from it.

However, knowing the benefits of exercise and even sincerely wanting to get into shape doesn’t always translate into shaking off the perpetual mom fatigue and throwing on the running shoes. Sometimes, we need more to actually get motivated to workout.

Before I knew it I had 4 kids 4 and under and an extra 50 lbs that needed to vacate my body’s real estate.

And unlike before, NOTHING was going to keep me from regular exercise. I was finally going to get into shape.

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So I researched. And then I made a plan to keep me motivated. And…it worked! Since then, I’ve managed to get back to my weight before having kids, lose over 35 lbs (and >10% body fat), drop 3 pants’ sizes, and reshape my body.  

Motivation really comes down to creating and implementing a plan that gets you pumped and keeps you accountable.

No matter how busy you are (and girl, I know you are) or how much you don’t like exercise, you can create a motivating plan that will make regular exercise happen.

Here are the three (research-backed) guiding principles that helped me create a plan to get motivated to workout while being a working mom to 4 kids 4 and under.


Research shows that creating a reward either during or after your workout will help you get motivated to workout.

Importantly, the reward should not be food. I know, bummer, right? But having food as a reward does not create a healthy lifestyle.

Stick to something else, like a favorite activity like watching TV, reading a magazine, or scrolling through a social media feed. The key is picking rewards that work for YOU. 


For me, my reward during my workout is listening to podcasts or audiobooks. And getting alone time away from my kids.

(Heaven knows I love my kids to pieces, but mama needs a little break everyday!)   

Since I either run or go to the gym before my kids are up (or have them at the gym daycare), I usually get to workout without any pint-sized distractions. Which is heavenly on its own. But then I also get to listen to podcasts and audiobooks without my children complaining about how boring they are. So endrophins aside, those 2 things make working out truly glorious for me.

What could be your “during” reward?

Here are some other examples:

  • Only watch your favorite show at the gym
  • Only listen to certain music you enjoy while working out


This reward can only be enjoyed once you’ve exercised. Perhaps you take a relaxing bath on days you’ve workout out or allow yourself to sit and drink coffee while reading People magazine.

What activity could be your “after” reward? 

Some examples: 

  • Watching a show you like
  • Scrolling Instagram (or another social media feed)

If you’re like me, when you think “reward” you think sugary treats. But food rewards are going make your efforts self-defeating.  


Most people benefit from having someone to keep them accountable in their exercise plans. An accountability partner can take many forms, but it generally means you’ve got someone who is both aware of your goals and is keeping you accountable.

For me, this means checking in with my husband about my daily workouts. Knowing my goals, he’s been encouraging and supportive. Always knowing that he’ll ask about my workouts keeps me accountable.

Some other examples of an accountability partner:

  • A workout buddy who you meet up with at acertain time and place
  • A personal trainer (paying someone tends to be really motivating to people)
  • Someone you text every time you workout (my sister texts me and finds it helpful)

What would your ideal accountability partner do?


If you do not like a certain exercise, it’s going to be REALLY hard to get motivated to do it. On the other hand, an activity you enjoy doing has built-in motivation. You’ll naturally want to do it and look forward to it. 

The keys to finding an exercise you love:

  • Explore Everything You can
  • Be Honest With Yourself
  • Don’t worry about how good you are

Remember: there is no ONE holy grail form of exercise that you simply have to do. And just because your friend, the girl down the street, or  the celebrity you follow is way into [insert exercise trend] doesn’t mean that’s the one true path to physical fitness.

There are endless paths to physical fitness!

Like fashion, exercise trends come and go. But forget trends and find what you love.

And be honest with yourself.

If gyms full make you feel self conscious and awkward, it’s going to make it that much harder to go. So maybe you want to get some equipment for home or do workout videos (T25 is my favorite).

If you hate running, it’s going to near impossible to lace up and hit the road. But maybe power lifting is the obsession you never knew you had.

And by the way, you don’t have to be good at something to love it.

I went to my first Zumba class years ago with a good friend who simply loved Zumba. Just before the class began, she admitted she was terrible and she did not disappoint. It was like watching a baby giraffe do hip-hop.

But honestly, she was completely glorious. And I loved her more for it.

Throughout the class, she was in complete bliss–all while getting an amazing sweat. Afterwards, she was on cloud nine and I was in awe of her awesomeness.

Do what you love and forget everything else.


With a desire and a plan, you will be motivated to exercise. Building in rewards, getting an accountability partner, and finding an exercise you legitimately love are three ways that you can make regular exercise a reality. Even as a busy mom. Select a strategy (or several) that are right for you, create your plan, and truly get motivated to exercise.

You’ve got this, mama!

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5 Clever Ways to Drink More Water Everyday

5 Clever Ways to Drink More Water Everyday

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5 Clever Tips to Drink More Water Everyday

You know you need to drink more water, but it just isn’t happening. You get to the end of the day and wrack your brain trying to think if you even made it to 5 glasses of water let alone the 8 everyone says you need.

When it comes to balancing everything in my life (e.g. kids, a home, and a job) the fact is that it’s incredibly easy to forget to drink enough water. Even as an obsessive water drinker. 

And what happens when I don’t drink enough? I feel like absolute garbage. Sluggish, bloated, and my skin starts to get blotchy and break out. It’s like my body is screaming at me to drink me. 

On the other hand, drinking tons of water injects me with energy. Plus, my skin looks and feels fabulous.

While the benefits are endless, drinking more water doesn’t have to mean a major life change. These 5 strategies will give you simple ways to start drinking more water and start feeling better.

1) Get a water bottle you absolutely love

While it may seem silly, having a water bottle that you love and that meets your unique needs will make all the difference when it comes to getting enough water.

If you don’t like your water bottle or it’s inconvenient to use, you’re not going to use it. It’s that simple. You won’t carry it around, you won’t throw it in your purse, and you won’t drink from it.

On the other hand, fining a water bottle that makes you happy is going to make it much more likely that you will actually use it. Before you pick your water bottle, decided what’s important to you.

Questions to consider:

  • What size do you need? Too big, you won’t carry it around. Too small, you’ll constantly be refilling.
  • Do you want it to keep water cold?
  • Do you want a straw or a wide-mouth lid?
  • Easy to drink on the go?
  • Where will you be storing the water bottle wile on the go?

There is no one size fits all for everyone. Now, I love giant water bottles. But there are plenty who would never carry around a 32 oz water bottle. It’s too bulky and inconvenient.

For me, finding a water bottle was like dating. I had to go through a lot over the years before I found the one I really wanted to settle down with. I’ve had various Nalgene and Camelback bottles (which were great), but last year I found my water bottle soulmate in the ever-trendy Hydroflask.

There’s a reason everyone’s got one: spill proof, keeps water cold FOREVER, easy to drink on the go, no condensation on the outside, gigantic. It was everything I ever wanted in a water bottle. Downside: gets dinged up easily. 

5 simple tips to drink more water everyday #drinkmorewater #healthylifestyle

5 simple tips to drink more water everyday #drinkmorewater #healthylifestyle

2) Drink a full bottle before each meal.

Since I struggle with any kind of tracking method (e.g. calorie counting) I need simple cut and dry rules to follow. This one really works for me.

I have my 32 oz Hydroflask and I make sure to fill it up all the way and empty it before each meal. That means I’m getting a least a whopping 96 oz a day.

If you want to make it even easier to track, get 3-4 separate bottles (of whatever size works for you) and fill them and put them in your fridge. This way you can actually see and track progress without having to write anything down. As you go through the day, just make sure you empty them all out.

3) Mix it up with flavored water

If you are a big soda drinker, you’re probably going to need a bit of flavor to make drinking more water doable. Plus, it’s just nice to mix it up. Options like La Croix and Spindrift (my personal favorite found at my Costco) are perfect flavored options. Since we don’t drink soda or juice at our house, my kids think it’s a huge treat to drink Spindrift.

4) Drink a glass right after you wake up

This is a part of my daily morning ritual. Not only will drinking a glass of water upon waking give you and immediate energy boost, it’s also going to sneak in an extra glass every day without even trying.

5) Track it

There are a variety of ways that you can track your water consumption. If you keep a paper planner, you can track it there.

Or you can use an app like Daily Water Tracker or Plant Nanny (a more whimsical option).

What works for you?

Drinking more water doesn’t have to upend your whole life. You can do it simply and easily. It’ll make all the difference in how you feel and how much energy you have. 

Find a water bottle you love and pick the method(s) that will work best for you. Drinking more water will immediately make your body feel better.

You’ve got this!

The Perfect at-Home Workout for Crazy Busy Moms

The Perfect at-Home Workout for Crazy Busy Moms

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The Perfect At-Home Workout for Busy Moms

After the birth of my first kid, I was bound and determined to get into great shape despite cancelling my gym membership. I was carrying 30 extra pounds that I needed to work off.

So with barrels of motivation and a set of P90X DVDs, I set out to work.

But adjusting to mom life and trying to fit in a super long at-home workout was seriously tough. I couldn’t manage 20 minutes without my baby fussing.

Some days, it’d take hitting pause a dozen times to be able to actually get through the entire workout.

Then I found out I was pregnant again. And before I knew it, I had a 14 month old and a newborn. Working out at all seemed daunting with 2 little ones. So how on earth would I be able to block out an uninterrupted hour to fit in a workout? 

That’s when I found Shaun T’s T25, which was a total game-changer. I knew I was involve from the first workout. 

Ten minutes in and I felt like I’d worked out for 45 minutes. And before I knew it, the 25 minutes was up and I felt like I’d just conquered the world.

All I needed to do was muster the energy to hit “play” 5 times a week, and I experienced some incredible changes in my health.

Suddenly daily exercise was far less daunting. With eleven 25 minute workouts to choose from, I had plenty of different options depending on my mood (and soreness level!).

Here’s why I think you might just love T25 too:

T25 is the perfect workout at home for busy moms

T25 is the perfect workout for busy moms


What You Get

  • 9 DVDs
  • 11–25 minute workouts that mostly require ZERO equipment
  • Loads of intense cardio
  • strength training for every muscle group
  • 3 minute cooldown after each workout


1. The workouts go by soooo fast.

Twenty-five minutes is nothing, my friend. But those 25 minutes a few times a week will bring huge changes to how you feel. Since each workout is broken up into exercises that you do for 30-45 seconds, there’s no time to get bored and the 25 minutes really do fly by.

2. You just have to press “play”.

No need to load up your kids and go to a gym. Or research and plan a workout. You don’t even have to put on workout clothes! Honestly, some days I’d just do it in my skivvies not wanting to dirty any extra laundry. You just gotta hit “play”.

3. Shaun T is delightful.

While I’m sure they exist, I haven’t yet met anyone who doesn’t like Shaun T. He’s engaging and super motivating. I just listened to him on a podcast and it just made me love him more.

4. Modifiers make it so you can do it at many levels.

When I first started, I used a LOT of the modifiers. But as I got in better shape I was able to drop them. It’s great because you can be at a variety of fitness levels and still get a killer workout.

5. You don’t have to follow the 10-week plan.

If following a plan works for you, then you’ve got one included in the DVD set. 

But if the thought of being locked into a plan stresses you out, no sweat. You can create your own routine. You’ve got 11 great workouts to choose from. If your goal is to work out 4 days a week, then pick out 4 workouts you want to do and press play 4 times.

Do the workouts you want to do.  Or you can switch up the workouts with running/walking. The options are endless.

6. You don’t need a bunch of equipment.

Most of the workouts just use body weight and a whole lotta sweat. A few call for a mat (for ab stuff) and a set of weights or a band (which actually comes with the DVDs).

7. You get an hour’s worth of workout crammed into 25 minutes.

With just 24 hours a day to work with, I’m always looking to use my time as efficenitly as possible. WHen it comes to getting a fabulous and quick workout, I don’t know of anything better.

8. Easy to workout before kids are up.

I’m a big believer in making the most of the morning hours and especially morning exercise, especially doing it before your kids are up. Because the workout is so quick, you can get up just 30 minutes earlier and be done with exercise for the day with no distractions and children demanding to be fed breakfast.

T25 is the perfect at-home workout for busy moms


Why it may NOT be for you

While amazing, these are legitimately intense workouts. You get a serious bang for your buck, but it’s not for the faint of heart. Literally. If you have a health issue or are completely starting from ground zero exercise-wise, these might not be the best exercises to start with. As always, be safe and smart about how you pursue greater health and consult a doctor is you’re unsure.

T25 is Awesome

But if you’re ready for some uh-mazing workouts that you can quickly fit in whenever you want in the privacy of your living room, then T25 might be answer you’re looking for. It’s the perfect way for crazy-busy moms to get in regular exercise without forking over the money for a gym membership.

Have you tried the workouts? Let me know what you thought of them.


A Busy Mom’s Guide to Creating a Self Care Routine

A Busy Mom’s Guide to Creating a Self Care Routine

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“Take time off…the world will not fall apart without you.”  (Malebo Sephodi)

And that goes for you too, mama.

But I get it: it’s hard to believe that we can take a break. Heck, it can be hard to feel like we truly deserve a break. But you not only deserve downtime, you need it to live a happy life.

As moms, we put ourselves last on our list of priorities. With all the balls we juggle daily, we are afraid that if we spend even a little time on ourselves, all the balls will drop and we will be spectacular failures.

We’ve got meals to prepare, houses to clean, and laundry to tackle. Plus millions of other things that find their way to our to-do list. Oh and and we have the task of molding our kids into independent and decent human beings. NO BIG DEAL.

Yeah, we’re busy.

And let’s say we do manage to do something for ourselves (like take a nice bath, sleep in, or go out with friends). What happens? Often, we end up feeling guilty about taking time for ourselves.

But it’s time to get over that destructive mindset. Right now.

Taking care of ourselves is not a privilege we must earn.

It’s a human need. And more than that, it’s 100% necessary if we want to be the best moms we can be. We are better equipped to take care of our children, families, and countless duties when we are taking excellent care of ourselves.

When we are constantly trying to operate on “empty” we are less likely to be the kind of mom we want to be. We yell more, are less efficient, and we are less playful with our kids.

But, of course, it took me a looooong time to figure that one out.
Tips to Create a Self Care Routine For Busy Moms #selfcare #momhacks

Tips to Create a Self Care Routine For Busy Moms #selfcare #momhacksTips to Create a Self Care Routine For Busy Moms #selfcare #momhacksGetting Started With Self-Care: A Mom's Survival Guide

In fact, I used to feel like I had to “earn” self care.

There are few things I find more relaxing than sitting in a super hot bath with epsom salts, essential oils, and a good book.

After a long day, it feels like stepping into heaven. The hot water relaxing my muscles as I breathe in the soothing scents of lavender and get to escape into a good book.

But I’ve always felt like I had to “earn” a nice bath. I had to be really really deserving to allow myself such decadent relaxation.

And once I had kids, that feeling only grew. To be truly deserving, I felt like I needed to run a marathon or deep clean every surface of my house.

As a working mom of 4 kids 4 and under, I felt like I couldn’t take time for myself without dropping all of the balls I was already desperately struggling to juggle.

I had 4 tiny people to keep alive and a house to take care of, while also trying to prep classes and stay on top of grading. I felt like taking time to take care of myself meant taking away from everything else.

But, boy, was I wrong.

Because taking care of our physical, mental, and spiritual health is not some luxury we must earn.

When I finally started to prioritize my health and create a self care routine, I realized that everyone was happier. I was happier and more relaxed. Which meant more patience and less yelling. And that meant happier kids and a happier home.

Taking care of myself means taking better care of my kids.

Creating a self care routine means leaving survival mode behind. While it took a huge shift in mindset to actually plan and execute proper self care, it has made such a difference in my life and family.

I’m a better mom. I’m more patient. My body is healthier and I feel more balanced.

Which means I’m so much better prepared to handle the stress and difficult situations that naturally arise in my day.

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First off, self care will look different for every mom. It all comes down to what rejuvenates YOU physically, mentally, and spiritually. But as our mom days are often packed with non-stop chaos, I find mornings and evenings to be the optimal times for quality self-care.

Creating rejuvenating morning and evening routines has completely changed my life and health.


Before my kids are up, I almost always read uplifting books, exercise, shower and get ready for the day. (For me, this means hair up, teeth brushed, face washed, clothes on, and perhaps some mascara).

I then meditate and sometimes write in a journal.

I’ve found that these practices nourish my mind, body, and soul. They set me up to be a happy, patient mom ready to tackle the crazy that will inevitably come my way.

For more on creating an awesome morning routine, check out this guide to makeover your morning.


In the evening, after I put my 4 small kids to bed, I wind down first by unplugging from technology. This is when my husband and I can finally talk and really connect.

And then, I take a hot relaxing bath with epsom salts and essential oils. (I conquered my “bath guilt”!!!) And I read a good book and decompress from the day. I breath deeply (this method is pretty fantastic) and will sometimes meditate if I am still having trouble shutting off my brain.

For more on creating a solid evening self care routine, check out these tips to create an even routine for moms.

Self-Care will look different for each of us.

To create your self-care routine, you’ll need to reflect what activities bring YOU peace and relaxation. When can you find time in your day to spend some time on yourself? Before you can do that, there are a few steps you need to take to make room for self-care in your life.

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Imagine a white piece of paper with writing on it. There are margins on all sides and spaces between the paragraphs. There is clear organization and flow. The white space provide direction and organization.

Okay, now imagine another piece of paper with crammed writing covering the entire surface. Overwhelming, huh? Not sure where to start or end and there are no white spaces to be found.

Which paper best resembles your life? The one with rests and white spaces? Or the one that is so full it’s impossible to make heads or tails of what is going on?

To fit in self care, we need to cut out activities that aren’t important. We need to create the white space in our lives.

To say yes to self care and better mental and physical health, you may need to say no to other things.

Step back an evaluate what you spend your time on.  Don’t let good things get in the way of doing THE BEST things. Don’t worry about fulfilling anyone’s expectations for you or what other people are doing. Evaluate what will be best for you and your family.

For me, this meant saying “no” to a lot of outside demands. It meant cutting out TV  and getting to sleep earlier.


If you’ve cut out the non-essentials, you’ve created the white space in your life. If you are anything like me, your natural inclination is to look at that white space and want to fill it all up.

Maybe you feel pressure to be super involved at your kids school, paint your entire house, or spend hours and hours planning a birthday party. While none of these things are bad, if we sacrifice our well-being to do them, then the cost is too great.

Instead, guard that white space with ferocity. That white space equals balance and your sanity. That white space allows you to fit in the much needed self-care activities that will improve your mental, physical, and spiritual health.

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To create the ideal self care routine, you want to make sure that you are including activities from the 3 core health areas: physical, mental, and spiritual.

Below are just a few ideas to get you started. To start, just add a few to your daily routine and see how it feels.


  • Exercise regularly
  • Go for a walk or hike
  • Get enough sleep
  • Eat nutritious food
  • Take a relaxing bath
  • Have a dance party with your kids
  • Ask your partner for a massage
  • Get 15 minutes of sun (with sunscreen)
  • Snuggle with your spouse or children
  • Take a nap
  • Take a hot bath with epsom salts and/or relaxing essential oils
  • Spend time in nature
  • Smell your favorite things


  • Declutter a problem area in your house
  • Journal
  • Start a file on your computer writing favorite memories of your kids
  • Read
  • Go outside and be in nature
  • Listen to a podcast
  • Go somewhere by yourself
  • Laugh–(watch a funny youtube videos)
  • Complete a task that’s been nagging at you
  • Start a book club


  • Meditate
  • Recite Affirmations
  • Read something uplifting
  • Go on a date with your husband
  • Try a new type of food
  • Cut out negative people on social media
  • Call/email an old friend you haven’t talked to in ages
  • Unplug from all electronics


Mamas, you are so important. So much rides on your capable shoulders. Make sure you give them a break everyday (even it’s a small one). And remember, self care is not a luxury. It is a necessity. Implement your own self care routine and let the benefits seep into your life.

You’ve got this, mama!